Dante’s Peak

March 15, 2010

Dante's Peak
Dante’s Peak (1997)

IMDB rating: 5.50

Plot: Volcanologist Harry Dalton and mayor Rachel Wando of Dante’s Peak try to convince the city council and the other volcanologists that the volcano right above Dante’s peak is indeed dangerous. People’s safety is being set against economical interests.

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Directors: Donaldson Roger

Actors: Brosnan Pierce,Hallahan Charles,Foley Jeremy,Heslov Grant,Trutner Kirk,Ma Tzi,Reddy Brian,Bolender Bill,Jason Peter,Action,Adventure,Drama,

How Much Should I ask for this DVD Lot?
I have a lot of 265 dvd’s. I was wondering how much I should set the reserve price for an ebay auction. These are the movies:

2 Fast 2 Furious
6 Days 7 Nights
8 Mile (x2)
10,000 BC
50 First Dates
300
A Man Apart
Accepted-Wide Screen
Ace Ventura When Nature Calls
A history of Violence
Al Capone Biography
Along Came a spider
Alpha Dog-Full Screen
American Gangster- 2 Disc Unrated Extended Edition
American Pie- Unrated (x3)
American Pie 2- Unrated (x2)
American Wedding- Unrated
Anger Management
Apollo 13
Austin Powers Gold Member
Bad Boys 2
Bad News Bear
Batman
Beef 3
Behind Enemy Lines
Black Mask
Boiler Room
Boiler Room-New
Boondock Saints
Bruce Lee Fists of Fury
Cabin Boy
Carlitos Way
Carlitos Way: Rise to Power
Casino
Cast Away(x2)
Charlie

Night Crossing

March 15, 2010

Night Crossing
Night Crossing (1981)

IMDB rating: 6.40

Plot: Two men want to escape from East Germany (under Communist rule) but they will only go if they can take their families with them. Based on a true story.

Directors: Mann Delbert

Actors: Hurt John,McKeon Doug,McKeon Keith,Bridges Beau,Liesik Geoffrey,Liesik Michael,Bannen Ian,Taylor Matthew,Lowitsch Klaus,Meisner Gunter,Dumont Sky,Niklas Jan,Family,Drama,

Ramadan:: Does it hurt you when you see?
An animal crossing the road at night and you know he may not make it across?

A cat with a broken foot?

A starving animal?

then how much more should it hurt you to see the suffering of our brothers in such places as Palestine?

This year Isna is holding conventions to raise money for Falasteen if there is one in your city please help donate to our brothers and sisters. Please donate to my cousins in Haifa and Acre. And if you cannot give money inshallah you can volunteer your time.

Thanks for reading. Salaams :)
Same place Jenny.


I think it hurts everyone to see a muslim cross the road at night
Cow Tipping Danger Duo ??????? | Feb 07, 2010


Mashallah.. thanks for sharing
*~*Balasim*~*Adam&JennahAreHere | Feb 07, 2010


i believe i have heard of Isna before
but haven’t been in any of their conventions yet.
but if it’s for palestine then definitely i will go donate and volunteer
mecca laran | Feb 07, 2010


live long falasteen!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2osirFt_q 6E

me and my friends donate money to our local masjids,
to help those people in need ..ex: haiti, palastine,africa(nairobi) etc…
it really hurts seeing people suffer =(
Nabeela | Feb 07, 2010


it hurts me alot to hear people suffer in places like plaestine AND Israel
Jenny | Feb 07, 2010


Animals cannot sort out their own problems

The Palestinians can.
They have allowed Hamas to take control.

Hamas is recognized by the United Nations as a terrorist organization,whose sole goal is to destroy Israel,no matter what the cost to their own Palestinian people.
Hamas seem to think that by sending rockets into Israeli schools and homes,then they are going to win the backing of the world,this is simply not going to happen.

Israel is not going to go away,
Israel is a sovereign state and whether Hamas like it ,or not,as such has the support of the whole civilized world.

Get rid of Hamas,
elect a decent government and try to find a peacefull way to live with the Israelis,it is the only way that the suffering of the Palestinian people will end.
The Bricklayer | Feb 07, 2010

Now and Then

March 14, 2010

Now and Then
Now and Then (1995)

IMDB rating: 6.00

Plot: Four childhood friends gather together to prepare for the birth of Chrissey’s baby. While together, they reminisce about when they were kids in 1970.

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Directors: Glatter Lesli Linka

Actors: Sawa Devon,Sparrow Walter,Azaria Hank,Comedy,Drama,Romance

Why won't he go on holiday with me?
For several months me and my boyfriend planned to go on holiday somewhere. At first we thought about going somewhere tropical and really different like Thailand or Borneo. I don’t earn a lot so he said for me to save ?300 and that he’d pay the rest. I was at first unsure about him paying some for me (as it was money he had received for both 18th and xmas). But we both wanted to go away. Then he said that it is a lot for a first holiday, which was fair enough, so said about travelling around Europe for two weeks. I have, however always wanted to go to Thailand, so at first found difficult to warm to the idea, and I could tell he noticed. When I found the places I wanted to go to we discovered that such places were expensive e.g. Paris and Venice. He then said that he didn’t want to spend so much money on a holiday and that he didn’t want to not go out to the pub and stuff leading up to the holiday, even though he has a job and earns ?50-?70 in a weekend. He then said that we won’t go on holiday. I excepted that.

Then suddenly, someone drops out from this holiday to Ibiza (These are some people he kind of knows from pub trips). He then tells me he’s been invited to replace someone and that he’s now going to Ibiza for a week. We’ve been going out for 15months, and I know he’s not the kind of person to go to Ibiza (He’s all about the culture, history, experience etc).

I’ve always told him that I don’t care where we go as long as it’s with him. But know he’s said that he won’t go on holiday with me, but is now going to Ibiza with a bunch of not very close friends, I’m really confused.

What should I do? And why do you think he’s doing this? help please xxx

Crossroads

March 13, 2010

Crossroads
Crossroads (1986)

IMDB rating: 6.50

Plot: Eugene is an extraordinary talent in classic guitar, but he dreams of being a famous Blues guitarist. So he investigates to find a storied lost song. He asks the legendary Blues musician Willie Brown to help him, but Willie demands to free him from the old-people’s prison first and to really learn the blues on the way to it’s origin: Mississippi Delta. Eugene doesn’t know yet about Willie’s deal with the devil, that he now wants to revoke.

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Directors: Hill Walter

Actors: Macchio Ralph,Seneca Joe,Morton Joe,Judd Robert,Vai Steve,Dennis Lipscomb,Carey Jr. Harry,Hancock John,Arbus Allan,Fann Al,Taylor Wally,Russ Tim,Donaldson Tex,Drama,Music,Mystery,Romance,

Help. Me and married work colleague real close.Going away for weekend, but no S.X?
Help, i’ve never felt this overwhelmed before. I’m a 26yr old woman. I started working in an office 3 months ago. I developed a deep ‘friendship’ with a married man . He has two children (3yrs and 2yrs and baby due with current wife) a 5 yr old with ex wife and a 10yr old with an ex partner. The thing is we have a deep connection, beyoud anything pysical. Hes 31 years and time stands still when we talk, its like there are only us two in the room. We go to lunch together, we have even gone for drink sessions in pubs with roasting fires when his wifes away on business. We have never done anything pysical. We would never cheat by means of the flesh as we are concious of his marriage. We are at a real crossroads. We reallllly want each other, but we feel our love is strangled because of his committments. We are so comfortable we discuss this. We are constantly texting. He even bought me a whole Joe Malone Giftset for my birthday, very expensive gift and he doesnt earn much money. Our hearts are broken when the wife comes in here sometimes. Its a kick in my stomach to me, and it rips his heart out as he wishes i was his wife, we’ve discussed this. He says he really wants to be with me but feels so trapped by family life. We know we probably will never be together, but the connection is very real and strong for both of us. We are now going away for a night together this weekend. We have rented a small cottege in a forest park and he has even split some logs for our fire on Friday night and i’ve bought some special wine and we are going to cook. Yet again, we are NOT having s.x. Yet our feelings are so intense, a brush of our skin sends shockwaves through us. We just talk abuot everything. We both suffer from depression and anxiety. We never have discussed this with other people, we’ve never been so comfortale. Please help us. We both feel so in love. He said he has never felt this intensity before. I stress, there is no s.x so NO LECTURE watned. We have not cheated and we will never be phcicial. What we have is purely deeply emotional. Its not about s.x . We both discussed that we think about each other in this way. If he was trying to have s.x with me, we would not be able to talk about such deep mystical subjects that we have never discussed with anyone before.


I dont think your love is strangled, honey he’s just got a severe case of blue b*lls and if you dont think he’s going to expect you to provide him with a little relief over the weekend, you’re deluded.

| Feb 03, 2010


I would not do anything with him. He obviously has not mastered the "pull out" method and you will most likely end up carrying his next child.

PS: You are fooling yourself if you believe it is not sexual. He probably has had plenty of those deep "mystical subjects" conversation with many women before you, he just tells you that he hasn’t because it makes you feel special.
~NIKKI~ | Feb 03, 2010


Get away. Move on. You cannot be invloved with a married man. He has a family to care about. If he wants to leave that is his choice. But do not become a homewrecker and what you are doing is undermining his marriage.
sped1018 | Feb 03, 2010


Eventhough you have not had sex he is still cheating on his wife with you. You and him are having an emotional affair with eachother. He is married. Stay away from him before you ruin his marriage. Grow up and let him go and stay away from him before you ruin his marriage. You are so disrespectful to his wife and his marriage.
Baby #2 is on the way!! | Feb 03, 2010


You do not have to have sex to cheat. Spending time with someone who is not your spouse is cheating.
Shelly | Feb 03, 2010


when there are kids involved stay away, not fair on them. do not destroy their family.
MARK | Feb 03, 2010


What a crock of cr*p! If this over whelming romantic story is in fact true, I suggest, as you’ve only known him for 3 months and he’s married with several kids you should "do one". As in run in the opposite direction. The reason he has no money is because he’s supporting 4 kids love. Give it a miss…. you’ll get over it.
Jo-Ann M | Feb 03, 2010


Lol! You have a "deep connection" with a married man who has made 5 kids by 3 women. Oh, and you’ve known him three whole months! That’s probably the best one I’ve seen on Yahoo yet! Another of his wonderful attributes:
"he doesn’t make much money" and so he bought you a WHOLE gift set? Wow! You mean he could have bought something for one of his children but he didn’t he spent it on you…because of your "mystical conversations". WOW! He sounds SO dreamy…where can I fin an idiot like that for me?!?
Not a prude | Feb 03, 2010


he has children with how many women? and you are thinking of being with him? think about it for just one second.
homertime | Feb 03, 2010


he has spread his seed to many women already. If you 2 do hook up, I’ll bet he ends up cheating on you.
Patricia | Feb 03, 2010


"deep mystical subjects"? OH BROTHER……..

The ONLY deep mystical thought he has is how to get into your pants.
from the sound of things, it’s gonna be real soon…

A cabin isolated in the woods…a fire in the fireplace…a meal..wine….I can smell the seduction from miles away lol….

You need to learn how to spell, too…’phcicial?’ do you mean physical?

..and yeah it’s ALL about sex as far as he is concerned…you are just deluding yourself.
Garnet Glitter | Feb 03, 2010


Let’s do the math . . . . 4 kids (about to be 5) with three different women. Now he’s getting close to you . . . . but no s.x.
Stop being delusional. While he’s not made a physical move on you yet, he’s all but got you locked up for an affair. He’s playing it cool to sucker you in closer and closer until it does happen. If you are smart, stop seeing him and find someone who wants a real relationship with you.
IF not, be prepared to be woman #4 and child #6. If you have any close friends, ask them. I’m sure they will give you the same advice.
jzfox | Feb 03, 2010


LOL!!! Completely, I mean 100% agree with Not a Prude! Seriously chick, by him having 5 kids with 3 different women that should already raise a red flag. You have only known this man for 3 months! Oh yes you do not have to have sex for it to be considered cheating! You need to move on and stop being the whore that will wreck a marriage. Apparently he has some love for his wife, if it wasn’t so then it wouldn’t of have split from the other women in which he has kids with. Also think about the children in the long run they will be affected by this in some kind of way. Be a better person and have some respect and dignity!!!
Shadow | Feb 03, 2010


This is an emotional affair. He is married and you need to keep this professional. And just because you two haven’t had sex and "won’t have sex" you think this makes you two better people!? In my opinion this is worse then a physical affair. It’s basically saying to the wife I am no longer in love with you. He needs to stop talking you and work on his marriage.
jnjmommy | Feb 03, 2010


Trust me its going to happend, Your next on his List, this sound like Tiger Woods, Stop while you can, otherwise. Your going to be screwed, and I mean Both Ways.
Junior 23 | Feb 03, 2010


Let what you know to be right stand above all. Avoid tempting situations, simple and plain. Think about how you want to be a wife someday and how you wouldn’t want a husband like him, macking some young beauty down at work. Think about everything that you want for yourself, and show some good humanity. Cancel this trip. It’s wrong.
Destiny | Feb 03, 2010


I think you are talking about my husband. You are welcome to him as I am fed up with his womanising. He can’t stay faithful to one woman and probably has another one or two other girls lined up. Run, as fast as you can, he’s not good bf material.
paulie | Feb 03, 2010


anything involving with a married man is cheating, he is taking away the time, love attention, affection from his wife and children, by spending time with you away as well as "loving" you!
i would advice not to go there as if came down to picking you or his wife, believe me his wife will come 1st and either one of you will have to find a new job too!
put yourself in this wife shoes, you found out your husband and father of your children is cheating, spending money on this woman when you need money for paying bills, food on the table, new clothes and school bits for the children but he claims he has none broke but yet expensive gift is giving to a mistress, over night stays, how would you feel in her shoes, would you want seek out blood and want answers but yet also due to the children want to work on the marriage but no trust there so he must change his number, loss contact with the mistress and change his job, just prove himself again!
bet you’d hate to have that happen to you, find self another man who is single and ready to be with you fully instead given out empty hopes and telling lies. if he had such strong connection with you he wouldn’t be talking about his "feelings" but instead would left to be with you long go, i bet whole reason of this friday night is to get your nickers off as his wife pregnant and not getting action at home at the moment but im sure the minute this baby born he get it all again and needed home more and your dumped like hot potato on the side of the road.
i once dated a man who was married but living apart from his wife, we dated for over a year and one morning i got text saying its over hes going back to the wife, after night together making love together (in my eyes obviously not his), his wife tried to burn my home down, i had to move and also buy new car so couldn’t be tracked down again, i changed my number from abusive calls from both of them and only few days before this abuse from my then ex i was told how much i was loved, how much connection is there that didn’t feel with anybody else and he hates his wife so much, mother of his children, and wished her dead. but yet went back to her so do not believe everything that comes out his mouth, men lie just so you hear what you want to hear, nothing more down to his feelings.
time let him go and stop this fantasy as wouldn’t go anymore for ye to spend your lives together, he has a wife, a woman he had feelings for so much he married her and made her the mother of 3 of his children, he wouldn’t give that up for you, so definitely wouldn’t. so stop this madness find self single man to give all your love and attention too, so can spend more nights together and enjoy planning a life together where don’t have to walk on egg shells around another woman who is the mans wife while your the mistress. Christmases, Easter Holidays are spent with her and those children, must be lonely over Christmas known eating nice dinner with his family and your lonely without him, cant be together on christmas morning, opening presents together – isn’t that such a crappy life instead haven it all with single man who can be 100% yours!
good luck
Mum of1 | Feb 03, 2010


With his track record – multiple kids with multiple people and his supposedly commitment to his wife, I think you are extremely dumb to be in this kind of situation.
What do you think is in it for you? — I will tell you — a big ZERO
sightseer | Feb 03, 2010


He is a player, who are you trying to kid, once you are alone with him, the inevitable will happen, and then baby number 6 could be on the way. He will tell you anything. Open your eyes to him 5 babies with 3 different women. And once he has slept with you he will dump you. Run run like the wind.
kevina p | Feb 03, 2010


You are a selfish, insensitive and dumb woman for wanting to have a relationship with a married man. He apparently has "commitments" issue, think about it 5 kids? just married and already cheating? because this is cheating. Careful honey, Karma is a bitch.
sophie | Feb 03, 2010


Liar liar, pants on fire, hair sticking up like a telephone wire! *skips about doing silly dance*
Yellowcake . | Feb 04, 2010

Vice

March 12, 2010

Vice
Vice (2008)

IMDB rating: 4.50

Plot: Detective Walker is a deeply flawed hero fighting to redeem himself while solving, and simultaneously trying to prevent, a string of murders following a drug deal gone bad. As in other gritty, gripping urban dramas, such as The Usual Suspects, Vice takes the viewer by the throat and doesn t let go until the final plot twist reveals the truth about Walker and the hard cost of making tough choices.

Vice

Directors: Inglis Raul

Actors: Madsen Michael,Williamson Mykelti,Boone Junior Mark,Kurupt,Cassini John,Lea Nicholas,Pearl Aaron,Kelly Matthew Robert,LaCroix Peter,Aneke Emy,Cummins Martin,Cassini Frank,Drama,

What are my chances of getting into Harvard College?
9th Grade: class rank 2/527 4.0 GPA
I was a member of the Student Council, Debate Team, Drill Team, Track Team, Teenage Democrats, and I was the secretary of Future Business Leaders of America.

Over the summer, I volunteered at the County Library but I am not sure how many hours I have. (I record my hours i just don’t have them on me at the moment)

10th Grade:class rank 1/350 4.0 GPA
I am a member of my county’s Youth Leadership Program, I am president of the Sophomore Class, Vice-president of the National Honor Society, Assistant Secretary of the National Beta Club Chapter at my school, I am the youngest member on the battalion staff at my school for JROTC, I am a member of Model United Nations

I know there is a lack of consistency between the extracurriculars but I changed schools due to rezoning and that affected my plans.

I am taking AP Government this year (10th), next year I am taking AP Literature and AP U.S. History with the hopes of taking the SAT 2’s for both, and my senior I plan on taking AP Language, AP European History,AP Phsycology,or AP Economics, AP Statistics, and maybe an AP Science im not sure yet. (I am also going to try to take another SAT 2 to fulfill the requirement)

I have called the admissions officers to get an idea as to what my path should be for a sucessful high school career that can lead me to becoming a suceeful lawyer in the future so that is why I am questioning taking an AP Science.


Your chances are super awesome!
Combat Guy | Feb 07, 2010


Work slightly harder and study for the topics given super hard and you could totally get in :P
But trust me it is kind of hard.
Do mine
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Just Meee | Feb 07, 2010


While your academic is excellent, you need to do more in terms of community service and volunteering. Like you said, your extracurriculars are pretty generic. Do something that is different, that is big and has a huge impact…say volunteering in Haiti for example.

The second most important thing of all is your SAT/ACT score. You need to get a 2300+ to be in the rank of their caliber. Good luck.
ultimeaciax | Feb 07, 2010

Fall, The

March 12, 2010

Fall, The
Fall, The (2006)

IMDB rating: 8.00

Plot: At a Los Angeles hospital in the 1920s, Alexandria is a child recovering from a broken arm. She befriends Roy Walker, a movie stunt man with legs paralyzed after a fall. At her request, Roy tells her an elaborate story about six men of widely varied backgrounds who are on a quest to kill a corrupt provincial governor. Between chapters of the story, Roy inveigles Alexandria to scout the hospital’s pharmacy for morphine. As Roy’s fantastic tale nears its end, Death seems close at hand.

Directors: Singh Tarsem

Actors: Pace Lee,Pace Lee,Uylenbroek Kim,Lithgow Aiden,Gilder Sean,France Ronald,Roussouw Andrew,Huff Michael,Swanby Grant,Hostina Emil,Hostina Emil,Adventure,Drama,Fantasy,

If a tree falls in the middle of the forest and there's nobody there to hear it, does it make a sound?


yes of course it does

just because there are no ears around does not mean that there is no acoustic sound
Sweet Yum Thing | Feb 05, 2010

Too Late the Hero

March 12, 2010

Too Late the Hero
Too Late the Hero (1970)

IMDB rating: 6.60

Plot: A WWII film set on a Pacific island. Japanese and allied forces occupy different parts of the island. When a group of British soldiers are sent on a mission behind enemy lines, things don’t go exactly to plan. This film differs in that some of the ‘heros’ are very reluctant, but they come good when they are pursued by the Japanese who are determined to prevent them returning to base.

Directors: Aldrich Robert

Actors: Caine Michael,Robertson Cliff,Bannen Ian,Andrews Harry,Fraser Ronald,Elliott Denholm,Percival Lance,Herbert Percy,Jordan Patrick,Kydd Sam,Beckley William,Horsey Martin,Jason Harvey,Knight Don,Newman Roger,Action,War,Drama,

my religious views changed after i got married…. and i'm a moron?
i think that my other post, which i will link to later, lacked a lot of details that provide perspective. as i said there after a few years of struggling with my Christianity i realized that my beliefs where based on fear and comfort, and i realized that it wasnt who i was and that i needed to get a handle on who i really was, and i realized i wasnt a religious person, i just grew up in a religious household. when i told my wife this she came apart at the seems. i had brought it up a few times but she always shut me down by saying things like "i dont believe that, your just confused" and "i cant handle it if you dont love jesus", so i would let it go for a few months and she would pretend nothing happened. after i made her accept it, and explained that i was miserable because i needed her to be there for me through this, she was really hurt, felt betrayed and said she didnt want to have kids with an atheist and have them be confused, and growing up in a simmilar situation i cant say i blame her. but on to the new dirt:

its hard to get her to communicate, because she doesn’t consider divorce an option (she used to threaten but when i suggested a trial separation while seeking counseling she said point blank she doesn’t believe in divorce), and she has said repeatedly in the last week that if we do divorce she will feel like a total dailure. it seems like she often wont be honest because she is afraid of pushing me over the edge, she will agree just to stop the fighting and then the problems come up later after they’ve festered. it makes it really hard to get anything done because she will freak out and shut down as soon as it gets too uncomfortable. its not like its the first time we’ve talked about separating, though before its always been some selfish and immature act on my part. usually its something stupid like me hanging out with friends too much and not coming home right after work, or not answering my phone cause i know she’s pissed and dont want to deal with it, but those little things make her bring up the stuff that no one should tolerate (and i cant believe she did), like 2 car accidents in a month cause i blacked out, or moving 600 miles for my dream job and then me failing the drug test. i cant blame her when she throws it in my face, because i know i’ve brought it on my self and any person who believed in divorce would have left already, but at the same time its going on a year since i did anything stupid, and its still getting thrown in my face all the time and i know it will be the same way with this for at least the next 4 or 5 years, probably longer because an isolated action gets farther behind you but religious beliefs are there every day

another thing is that i really dont think it would be fair to my (future) kids to expect them to grow up with parents having different beliefs. my parents tried to do the same thing you suggested, and it just didnt work, even though my dad supported my mom to my face, i caught on very young that it didnt mean much to him, and the fighting created a lot of turbulence in my life that made me think it was normal to fight every day.

i might feel better about not having kids if we had more in common, but truth be told i can count the things we have in common on one hand, and i dont think its enough to base a relationship on, its like : we’re dieting together, we like to go to movies, we like camping and hiking, and we want kids… thats mpretty much it. when we got together religion was a huge common denominator and now thats gone, and without that i just cant see how theres enough to base a relationship on. when i imagine myself in 20 years, its either single or midle aged and divorced, and it will be alot harder to rebuild when i’m 45, fat, balding and divorced then when i’m 24 and divorced. i was talking to a woman i grew up with (she has nothing to do with this, she just called me out of the blue last night after not talking since before the wedding) and as we talked i remembered that me and this person had everything in common, and my wife and i have nothing other than 6 years of rocky relationship and blind love, hiking and watching heroes. what kind of life is that? i know i could find SOMEONE who was a better match for me, and my wife can to because she is an incredible person (putting up with me for 5 years proves that)

it would be easy if she had been an @$$ hole too, but she always stuck by me and helped me pull myself together, she is my best friend. i’m just not sure i’m willing to bet on us working things out to the point where either of us will be really happy, and I would be doing her as much of a disservice by letting her faith keep her in a miserable relationship as i have by being an immature little shit for the last 3 years. we’re going to give counseling a try, and i’m still considering a trial separation, but i have a feeling that might hurt her more than it helps, because she will be embarrassed when she cant hide it fro
be knott wildered: i welcome your input, i liked your answer about that question as well, and i appreciate that you are contemplating your answer. to answer a cuople things that came up in the questions:

yes i have considered this a lot, and whether or not i should get divorced boils down to whether or not my wife and myself can be happy in our lives together, and not just if we can "survive". i love my wife, and i took my vows seriously, but more than the words i spoke i believe that its my responsibility to do whats best for her as well as myself, and if that means setting her free from a relationship her faith wont let her end, so be it. its not about "the grass being greener" or not taking my vows seriously its about not wanting either of us to settle for an unhappy, frustrating existance. she has calmed down a little, and i perposed to her that we get into counceling ASAP, that i would give it 6 months and if things are looking better i’ll give it 6 more. if things look………
the same or worse in 6 months then its time for a trial separation, and would keep going to counceling during that time till we decided what we want . as for this female friend i’m not interested in her at all, she might as well be my sister, and we arent planning to spend any time together in the near future, i only mentioned it because it make me think about how little my wife and i had in common, and that we could probably both find people that we could have a strong relationship with based on true similarities, rather than based on loyalty, emotion and 2 totally opposite people getting married at 21. you also have to realize that my wife wont consider divorce unless i beat her or cheat on her, and even then i dont know that she would. she is totally apposed to a divorce under any circumstances so she wont consider that she might be happier, and that puts alot of pressure on me and makes he feel like a douche bag for thinking about divorce at all.
…. but how can i not consider it? all i’ve done is our relationship is crap on her and take advantage of her forgiveness, if she had done it to me i dont think i would have stayed, or at least i would have. on the one hand it makes me love her all the more, how can i not? but i learned a long time ago that emotion and sex cant hold you to someone forever, they have to fulfill you and be in sync with you, and i’m not sure my wife is capable of that.

while we where talking today (it was a pretty good day compared to the last month) we commited to do some stuff together, and to do more stuff apart, the hoe being that we can find a healthy balance between she/me and "us", because we always tended to cling and suffocate eachother when we wherent fighting.
as for god, i think there is likely an intelligence behind the universe, but i reject any human vision of god because they are all based on assumption, myth and superstition. i choose free will & happiness, let "God" worry about god.


no,you are not
Heihei | Feb 01, 2010


It sounds like you are going through some personal issues and bringing them into your marriage. Do you even want to save your marriage at this point? I’m not entirely sure you do by the way you come off. Talking to someone else, even a just a "female friend", when in trouble with your partner is never a good idea. It only opens the door for more mischief. The grass always looks greener on the other side.

She is your best friend and she has continued to stick by you through thick and thin. What more can you want from her? To be accepting of the fact that you’ve suddenly become Atheist? Like I told you in your other post, I’m a Christian woman myself and I’d be pissed if my fiance suddenly decided after several years of marriage that he wasn’t a believer. That doesn’t mean you can’t work through things, but it’s probably going to be difficult for her to accept that her husband has lost his faith. If you want to work through things because it sounds as if you are strongly considering divorce.
happily*waiting | Feb 01, 2010


Wow. You have given this some thought, haven’t you? That is good, this is a serious thing and deserves some serious introspection.

Hmm… do you consider yourself an atheist, now? And why, exactly? Or do you think there may be a different way to practice your beliefs? I am a practicing Catholic, but I believe when Christ spoke of "many mansions in my Father’s house" he was referring to the many different ways we can come to God. It is not like the Catholics are the only ones right and the Baptists are all going to Hell. We all revere the same God. Anyway, is that it?

And your wife, she has stuck by you during your less than shining moments. Would you have done the same if the roles were reversed? And while it is not good to keep harping on your mistakes and throwing them in your face, you do realize that they are difficult for her to get past, right? Forgiveness is not a one shot deal for us mere mortals. The bigger the hurt, the more we must forgive, and that takes time and practice.

As for that friend… don’t go there. She may mean well, but it is too dangerous for you and the state of your marriage for you to renew even a platonic friendship with her.

Do you honor your wife? Your commitment? Or do you think that since you think you do not believe in God anymore that the promises you made on your wedding day are null and void now? Even atheists get married and see it through, because of integrity and commitment to each other.

I think counseling is a good idea. But both you and your wife should keep in mind that things are going to surface that are not pleasant for either of you. It is not all good touchy/feely stuff. There may well be some hurt to go through. Do you think the both of you are strong enough?

This crisis can bring the two of you closer, or rip you apart, but I think that it is up to the both of you as to the outcome. Good luck, and dare I say it – God bless.
Irish Eyes | Feb 01, 2010


I liked your answer to "Anyone else find it ironic when a creationist demands PROOF for evolution?" I gave you a thumbs up. I am going to answer this question in a bit, but since you do not accept email I had no other way to get a message to you. If you do not mind, look at my answer (just below yours) and if you like it, give me a thumbs up. If you do not, then don’t. Honesty I can take.

I am going to have to think a bit before answering this question. You do not need a knee-jerk response but rather a well-considered one. The only thing that will keep me from finishing this is Yahoo will not let me edit it. That happens once in a while. I asked a question about that recently. I am not the only one evidently.
B Knott Wildered | Feb 01, 2010

The Bridge to Nowhere

March 11, 2010

The Bridge to Nowhere
The Bridge to Nowhere (2009)

IMDB rating: 0.00

Plot: The Bridge to Nowhere is the story of four young 20-something men from the rough Upper North Side of Pittsburgh. They are stuck in dead-end jobs and struggle with dysfunctional family lives. The guys, inspired by the images of pop culture and the desire to break away from the neighborhood, regularly scheme to make extra money by running minor underground activities, including: sports booking, poker tournaments and house parties. One night during an evening out the four young men stumble across the “new neighbors”, two independent prostitutes, Jasper and Candice, who end up inspiring a new business idea. Trapped in her own existence, Jasper, agrees to join forces with the young men to create, quite accidentally, what turns out to be an empire that launches each of them into financial riches. Along the way each character battles their own demons regarding the choices they have made In the end, however, their world comes crashing down on them in grandiose fashion. It’s the city of bridges, where water separates the haves and have-nots, the bridge they sought so desperately to cross ultimately ends up being The Bridge To Nowhere

i find The Bridge to Nowhere iPod/iPhone version and download

Directors: Underwood Blair

Actors: Rhames Ving,Masterson Danny,Crowley Ben,London Daniel,Nicholas Thomas Ian,Derry Sean,Kurlander Tom,Wittlin Mike,Hudson Falconer,Iwanonkiw John W.,Kania William,Crime,Drama,

How much will a speeding ticket in Louisiana cost me?
Basically my husband and I were moving from Georgia to Texas and we were making the drive late at night. No problems all the way through but as we were going through Louisiana the speed limit dropped from 70 to 60 (because of a random bridge — not one of the big ones; it was in the middle of nowhere) and my husband was driving. He actually slowed down but had sped up to 80 again in anticipation of getting off the bridge and a cop pulled us over Just before we got off the bridge and gave us a ticket for going 80 in a 60 zone. He was very impolite and did not even get out of his vehicle. He didn’t ask what we were doing there or anything, and it was 2 am on a Thursday morning with Nobody else on the road. He just said here’s your ticket, call to see how much it’ll be before March 22nd.

My question is how much this is going to cost us. My father implied that in Georgia, licenses are suspended for going 20 over the speed limit. Do I have to worry about this? Any help would be very appreciated >_<.
I checked the unofficial DMV site extensively. They have no monetary estimates and also state that if you live within the state you can take classes to reduce the points on your license. That doesn’t help me. The sarcastic answers are funny but I’m trying to figure out if I’m looking at a ticket that’s going to cost me Just one month or so of rent, or my husband’s license entirely, so please keep it serious.


it should cost about 20 or so dollars a mile, according to some online estimates. this factors in gas, wear and tear, racism, oil and time. i’ve also added two dollars a mile as an opportunity cost estimate for all the time it would take to get there as being time you could have been selling lemonade for easy cash.

Kyle E | Jan 31, 2010


well seeing as it’s Louisiana, it will probably cost you about twelve gator skins and 3 lynchin’ ropes. Tha’s how much I ’spect it cost ya, a-yup.
Lawsonator | Jan 31, 2010


Check out http://www.dmv.org/la-louisiana/paying-t raffic-tickets.php
GibsonEssGee | Jan 31, 2010


36 crawfish, a table dance, and $20

I got $20 and a lot of crawfish if you got a few minutes.
MTV Please Pimp My Ride!!! | Jan 31, 2010

Fracture

March 10, 2010

Fracture
Fracture (2007)

IMDB rating: 6.80

Plot: Wealthy, brilliant, and meticulous Ted Crawford, a structural engineer in Los Angeles, shoots his wife and entraps her lover. He signs a confession; at the arraignment, he asserts his rights to represent himself and asks the court to move immediately to trial. The prosecutor is Willy Beachum, a hotshot who’s soon to join a fancy civil-law firm, told by everyone it’s an open and shut case. Crawford sees Beachum’s weakness, the hairline fracture of his character: Willy’s a winner. The engineer sets in motion a clockwork crime with all the objects moving in predictable ways.

Directors: Hoblit Gregory

Actors: Hopkins Anthony,Gosling Ryan,Strathairn David,Burke Billy,Curtis Cliff,Gunton Bob,Josh Stamberg,Berkeley Xander,Cervantes Gary,Crime,Drama,Thriller,

I fractured my wrist how can i get a quiker healing what can i take?
its swollen and big i cant move it that much or it will hurt what can i take to get a speedy healing and will it affect my throwing when i play baseball again and my batting

Edmond

March 10, 2010

Edmond
Edmond (2005)

IMDB rating: 6.30

Plot: A man in a suit at a Manhattan firm leaves work on Friday; he looks unhappy. He stops at a fortune teller’s for a Tarot reading: “You are not where you belong,” she tells him. That evening he quits his marriage and walks the streets of New York, passing from a classy bar to a gentleman’s club, then to a high-class bordello, a mugging, a pawnshop, and a diner where someone does listen. He shares his insights with her and later with others. Violence, disappointment, and musings entwine as Edmond loses his moorings while believing he’s found them. Where does he belong?

Download Edmond

Directors: Gordon Stuart

Actors: Macy William H.,Mantegna Joe,Guastaferro Vincent,Landers Matt,Hill Dule,Hornsby Russell,Hodge Aldis,Combs Jeffrey,Drama,Thriller,

persian cats in oklahoma?
hi guys i was just wondering if there was a persian cat breeder in oklahoma? preferably in oklahoma city or edmond. if so please tell me the name (and website please). thank you


Check your Animal Control or aspca. Save lives and adopt!

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